Elin baru dapat berita yg one of my old friend gonna get married, just tak tau bila jer..
When I got the news, I was like " Ma, but she is 17, like me.." N mama said not sure wether she gonna get married soon or not but the thing is she is getting married.
MARRIED?
Ok, this topic is my favourite topic as I am growing fast in an environment that cultured us, the muslim girls with a strong religious background ( maybe not so working for me as I am a bit rebellious, thanks to Mr. F who always correct my wrongs..) Marriage is a big issue you know... Most people yg kahwin dalam usia setahun apple ( ada ke setahun apple? ) ended up with divorce, turun naik mahkamah, pukul sanasini, and etc... I am not saying that their marriage is not doing well because of them, maybe it is fated. But, the failure must start with them jugak laa kan pusing2 cerita pon...
Ok, back to the square, I would like to ask you girls, who is getting married in the teenage, are you really PREPARED for this? Marriage is not only you guys are physically bonded but it involves mentally and spiritually issues, ok? Cheh, talking like I was married already...
Personally, I really think that ladies must think rationally before you jump into the decision to marry a man. For me, marriage is like we are bonded to our man with the Islamic way of ... you know, the love thingy...
Sweet kan??
I think that I am too early to think about this topic but I know that, sooner or later I have to face the reality of being a guy's lady.. Bini org laa senang ceghite... I really don't know if I can fulfill all the sort of 'criteria' that my future man is looking for.. Will I be the lady that will be by his side till jannah? Will I be the lady that will take care of him n stay by his side when he is unwell and need me to cure his sorrows... Will I take his hand and lead him to the truth whenever he is wrong? Will I be his biggest supporter after Allah and his mother?
I really hope that I will be the best for my future man... Insha Allah... Amiiinn...
P/S : I am not married yet, ok!!!! I just spill my thought here... I don't even have any boyfriend or whatnot!!
n I hope that my love will only for my man..
Love :
~AE~
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